Feelings

Hi guys

I'am back with a new blog and in this blog I will talk about feelings,what and when the problems start's  with feelings and how can you deal with those situations.

All of us feel something about each and every event happening around us in our life, every individual feels differently in the same situations. Feelings act as both our strength and our weakness it depends on us how efficiently we use them,for example if someone died in a particular family then the different members of family will feel differently, almost everyone will feel sad and the mature one's will feel the responsibility,the children will observe the reactions in the environment and they will respond accordingly.

The problem begins when you not try to understand them in stead of that most of us put those feelings in the category:right or wrong.

If a boy likes a girl then we cannot differentiate whether it is love, attraction or lust,because we don't know how he feel about her and most of the times the boy himself has no idea that it is love or attraction or some hormone enhancement in the body. 

Actually we all feel differently but how we express our feelings gives an idea to the people about our situation.So there is a difference between how you feel and how you express your feelings.Lets take the example of the religion:

"If your belief is far superior than your karma you will feel the Lord's presence."

No one knows how you feel but people always try to identify your feelings through your actions because that is the nature of humans ,we are highly intellectual complex minds if you show us something,we will interpret a lot of things by our self and sometimes these interpretations are correct.Feelings of an individual may change over time depending upon the surroundings.For example,a man loves his country.He serves the army and another man who loves his religion gets motivated by some speakers of his religion and joins a militant group,whose work is to destroy the world, torture different people for no reasons.Now,in this case both of them love(Feeling) their work but they both have different goals. One wants to die for the country because that is the highest achievement for him and other wants to destroy the world and he is also prepared for the death.Now here comes the role of teachings and interests of an individual.

"If you cannot give someone a life then you have no right to take someone's life."

So if you are feeling something bad just hold for sometime and be involved in good deeds,that feeling will be gone soon but,don't do those tasks which may lead you to hell.